Sharon Tohcommunication
August 9th 2006 09:28
I don't really understand why women are scared to tell men about their insecurity. Is it because they don't want the man to feel as though he's got all the control in the relationship? Are we scared that we would decrease our value and look much less desirable? Perhaps we do need to be more honest with each other if we want them to return the honesty.
Must I emphasize the fact that we need communication in the relationship. There are over 142,000,000 sites found on Google when "Relationship Communication" was searched. Plenty of help out there for those who feel really bothered about their relationships. We should be more ourselves, rather than becoming an emotionless person to satisfy our dignity and pride. If theres a problem, talk to him about it, compromise and move on.
However we must know when enough is enough.
Giving him talks regarding "feelings" is just going to bring the relationship down, as Sherry Argov suggests "Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he'll pay even less attention to your feelings"
So its OK to talk about feelings once in a while and admit to insecurities and jealousy.. It won't make them like you any less or devalue you if you don't do it all the time. In fact, they may appreciate you opening up to them more.
Must I emphasize the fact that we need communication in the relationship. There are over 142,000,000 sites found on Google when "Relationship Communication" was searched. Plenty of help out there for those who feel really bothered about their relationships. We should be more ourselves, rather than becoming an emotionless person to satisfy our dignity and pride. If theres a problem, talk to him about it, compromise and move on.
However we must know when enough is enough.
Giving him talks regarding "feelings" is just going to bring the relationship down, as Sherry Argov suggests "Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he'll pay even less attention to your feelings"
So its OK to talk about feelings once in a while and admit to insecurities and jealousy.. It won't make them like you any less or devalue you if you don't do it all the time. In fact, they may appreciate you opening up to them more.
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